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What makes someone a great lover? Is it their physical appearance? What they sound and look like when having sex? Certainly there are surface level ways that make a person more sexually attractive in these ways.... Read More »
Every relationship has an exchange of energy. Each person has resources available to them to offer. What those resources look like can vary. Time. Attention. Service. Connections to others or things one would like. Materials.... Read More »
We met in the summer. It was hot and sticky; blinds were drawn, and the air conditioner was on. A dim lamp and my sexy playlist low. A standard hour session with a much older gentleman. He seemed sweet. Unassuming. Shared some red wine.
He was in his 80's. Married fo... Read More »
When the seed was planted in my head, a mere curiosity got buried in the back of my mind. The mid-20s stay-at-home mom whose only understanding of relationship & intimacy was to tether yourself to one person... Read More »
As Dr. Emily Morse likes to say, “Communication is a lubrication.”
Yes! You filthy, dirty animal, a little dirty talk can be fun! That’s not quite what she’s trying to say.Read More »
GO SLOW! Get that clit PREPPED! You want her pussy soft, fat and WET before penetration. And don't forget, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH USING LUBE!!!! A woman not getting wet is not necessarily a direct correlation to her turnon or ability to orgasm. There are many reasons we can't get wet... Read More »
You know the old adage, "practice makes perfect."
In a sense, that's true. From a different viewpoint, perfection is an illusion.
The truth is, what we're really searching for is Mastery. Mastery of any skill requires time on the mat. It requires experien... Read More »
To be so intelligent in so many ways, yet so ignorant...so UNEDUCATED...around our sex and intimacy is, well, dumb.
How well do you really know your body? Your partner's body? Or how they work together? Have you taken time to consider the art of negotiation in the erotic realm? Do you... Read More »
